Discovering: True Colours Of People

As I am growing up, facing a bigger and tougher world, I am discovering people…at times more than once.
The people I use to look up to actually turn out to be really junky and the people I thought to be bad show up to be admirable ones! Unfortunately the first case is more persistent…

This is a constant problem, and that has lead me to how I judge people today, for a long time and considerately. It is true that I am not very judgemental, I never was, but when you meet someone or get to know them, you automatically develop a sense of expectation. Through time whenever that boundary of expectations is broken by the person, you are really hurt and shattered. That is what happens more frequently as we get to know more and more people. A few such recent scenarios have caused me to write this post. Though this may seem nonsense to some, but I am sure it will make a lot of sense to many!


9 Comments Add yours

  1. Green Muse says:

    It’s true that when you “grow up” just a little bit, you realize that you have no role models or idols, because they have turned out to be less than you believed. The best solution is to model yourself after…you. Your favorite version of you(that is possible). Create something out of many snippets of somethings and you have made something all new and to be proud of.

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    1. This is so true…thanks a lot for the advice!

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  2. Alas, disillusionment sets in when our expectations are built up, but being human, we cannot help having expectations. I hope all is well with you, and that there are enough people in your life who deserve your admiration. All the best, and keep writing. It’s great that you are blogging at your age!

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    1. Everything is alright!!!
      Thanks a lot for reading though…😊😊😊

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  3. Sunny says:

    I can understanding that Jishu. But day by day you will be mature enough to realize this and to handle this. What interesting about you is that. You choose to write in this age. feel proud for you and wish you all the best for your future.

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    1. Thanks a lot! 😊😊😊

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  4. This is so true. It sometimes comes as a shock when the people you trust the most turn their backs on you. Great post.

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    1. Absolutely!
      Thanks a lot!

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